My boyfriend and I have been living together since December and I have a 2 year old daughter. This month is her birthday and I tried to discuss having a b-day party with him (my family 20-25 people. his family is planning one for her at his parents) He said no party I dont want those people in my house. I decided to try and talk to him about it again a couple of weeks ago and he said "do whatever you want then, but I wont be there" I told him in some not so nice words that I would be angry if he was not there and I had to explain for him, and I set the date for the 27th from 1-4pm. Well since this has been a constant argument and I am unsure of what to do. I told him that this is for her and this has been a normal thing in my family to have parties for the kids. He says that if these people (my family) cannot come to visit all of the time that is ridiculous to have them at a pary and I tried to explain that everyone has thier own lives and special occasions are a time for everyone to get together. He also says that he hates kids (he says he only likes mine) and he dosnt want all of those kids running around "his" house. Well tonight was another big blowup and I told hime "just dont come" If he had these opinions he should have expressed them before I invited everyone and we could have come up with a comprimise.
Basically I am just looking for some insight and maybe others opinions.
