I give up...

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I give up...

New postby leowen on Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:26 am


What am I doing wrong?
I am a good guy, I support my children, I fought for this country for 17 years as a marine
I am supporting my 2 children by myself ( i am a single dad) i dont lie, cheat or steal
I treat women as best I can but for some reason the same crap happens every time...

I met someone from here on Friday. I went to her house she didnt
have a car so i took her to the grocery store even gave her $5 to help
when she was short on her groceries.

We went back to her place, watched movies, played trivial pursuit and cards,
hugged each other a little kissing, no sex and at end of night i left. I called
her afterwards, thanked her for dinner, she asked me to come by the next day
which i did, we watched more movies, talked, i bought her dinner at the end
of the night i went home again with the understanding we would get togther
on sunday

Sunday morning i wake up to these text messges...

1. Morning! About us. I'm not ready emotionally 2 go fast as u seem. I cant
commit. 2day i need 2b alone. No talk 2day pls im overwhelmed

2. I thought was ready 4 something more peerm but now i know im not ready for
anyone. I wont change mind on this one. Thankyou for amazing company

3. I dont want to talk bout it by phone or face to face call me a coward im sorry

4. You did nothing wrong. Im not ready 4u. Im retarded emotionally. Serious and
sadly. makes me ashamed. I want it but i dont FEEL it

Is there no women out there who want a good man who takes care of his responsibilities
treats his lady with the utmost respect
I swear im starting to understand why some men just swear off women!

Advice Please
leowen

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Re: I give up...

New postby Shaun81 on Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:26 am


While it's good you take care of your children and all that you are acting like you are doing something extraordinary and special when really there is nothing extraordinary about it. Lots of people support their children without a spouse. Lots of people are kind and caring. This behaviour does not insure that you will get the person you want.

The woman was just not interested. There is nothing you can do to force that. I have no idea why she was not interested so i am not going to make a list , but do you really want to know the exact reason why she was not interested? I know i wouldn't want to know. A simple sorry but not interested is fine for me.
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